Hear From Kids: The #1 Safety Issue Overlooked By Parents🎥
We assembled a group of teen and young adult experts to dive deeper into the topics that they feel parents need to prioritize discussing with their kids, because who better to hear it from, than kids themselves? Here are 5 key topics that young adults feel that parents often forget to prepare their kids for: You will stumble upon bad, or even untrue news There are a breadth of news platforms on social media, often with conflicting information. Spend time discussing which ones should your children pay attention to, and which ones they should disregard. There’s going to be an negative information According to this video by the AAP, “Social media can expose you to content that is violent, dangerous, or inaccurate.” Navigate how your child should be using social media, what types of content are appropriate, and remember that not all new information will have a negative impact on them. They may receive unwanted direct messages from strangers Make sure your child is aware of online predators and scammers so that they can identify and block strangers who message them. Social media can encourage a negative self image According to this video by the AAP, “As humans, it’s normal that we compare ourselves to others, but in this online environment, there’s so many more opportunities to do that.” Children and teens who are just coming into their self-esteem may be more vulnerable and prolonged exposure to unattainable body standards can manifest into poor eating habits. No matter how many restrictions you set, your child could still come across dangerous content online Maintain open conversations about online safety with your child so that they are comfortable coming to you and asking questions. Exploring the internet with your child will help you navigate what information they’re ready to learn and what information you’re ready to teach.
Was your child the victim of a scammer or predator? 10 tips for parents
While you should follow the instructions provided to you by law enforcement or government agencies, these 10 steps are a good place to start when you aren’t sure what to do. 1. Make sure your child is safe. First, make sure your child is physically safe. It’s a good idea to remove their devices and internet access temporarily while you sort out how the scammer or predator got in touch with your child and what information that person may now possess. Let your child know you aren’t mad at them, this isn’t a punishment, and they’ll get their devices back as soon as you and the authorities can make sure everything is secure. 2. Contact the authorities. Whether you suspect a predator or a scammer targeted your child, contacting the authorities is a good step to take. A police report documenting financial fraud can be helpful as you work with financial institutions to retrieve or secure your family’s stolen funds. You’ll typically want to call your police department’s non-emergency number (not 911) or go in person to file a scam and fraud report. If a suspected predator is involved you'll need to assess your child's physical and emotional state and decide whether to call 911, ring the closest station directly, or go see a police officer in person. 3. Contact a hotline for help. Dedicated hotlines can help your family get connected with the right resources, including therapists. Depending on your child’s experience, you may want to contact one of the following organizations if you’re in the U.S., too: The CyberTipline for child sexual exploitation (U.S.): 1-800-843-5878 VictimConnect (U.S.): 1-855-4-VICTIM National Parent and Youth Helpline (U.S.): 1-855-427-2736 4. Document any communication with the perpetrator. Next, you’ll want to work quickly to document any available communications with the suspected scammer or predator. Once the perpetrator realizes that they’ve been discovered, it’s possible they’ll close accounts or delete messages—so take screenshots if you’re able. 5. Don’t block accounts or file reports with online platforms (yet) This may feel counterintuitive, but you’ll want to hold off on blocking the suspected scammer or predator from your child’s accounts. You’ll also want to press pause on contacting the social media or game platform that the predator used to contact your child, too. The reason is that once the perpetrator’s account gets blocked and shut down, it may be harder for law enforcement to find them in the real world. Follow the advice of the authorities you’re working with regarding when to block and request the shutdown of a predator or scammer’s account. 6. Contact credit bureaus and government agencies. If you suspect any financial fraud or identity theft, you’ll want to contact a few different institutions. These can include: Your credit card company and bank The three major U.S. credit bureaus (Experian, TransUnion, and Equifax) The Social Security Administration or other government agency responsible for national IDs in your country It’s important to take these steps even if your child is a minor and doesn’t have a credit card, bank account, or passport. A credit bureau or government agency can help you understand if a scammer is using your child’s identity to open up lines of credit and more. 7. Reset app and account passwords. As soon as you’re able, reset the passwords on your child’s online accounts—from social media to any banking apps—even if your child is sure they didn’t reveal personally identifying or financial information. Scammers and predators can glean personal information out of sentences and statements that may sound innocuous to you and your child, so it’s a good idea to change the passwords for extra peace of mind. 8. Notify trusted loved ones who could be targeted next. While it’s important to respect your child’s privacy—and you don’t need to give out specific details about what happened—you may want to let loved ones know to be on the lookout for suspicious messages or calls. Some scammers use identifying information gathered from their targets, or voice cloning technology, to trick family members into thinking their relatives are in trouble. 9. Get in touch with a professional licensed therapist. Even if your child seems outwardly the same and says they’re fine, it can still be a good idea to get in touch with a professional therapist who specializes in working with children. In the U.S., Psychology Today’s therapist directory is a great place to start. Many countries also have helplines that you can call to be connected with mental health resources in your area. 10. Shore up your digital security at home. Finally, you may want to take measures to strengthen your digital security at home. This doesn’t mean it was your or your child’s fault that a scammer or predator gained access to your world—it’s not. No system is completely foolproof. But having regular family chats about online safety, monitoring your kids’ screen time, setting up an identity theft monitoring program, and having regular check-ins about online activities can help to keep everyone safe.How does child identity theft happen?
Covering your bases proves extra important. There are five main types of child identity fraud: 1. Theft within the family (i.e., familial fraud): Family members, close friends, and legal guardians are most likely to commit child identity theft. (A Javelin study concludes that 70% of child identity theft victims know the perpetrator). These people have access to the child or family and can take steps to hide the fraud.‍ 2. Phishing scams on email or social media: ‍We’ve all fallen for a phishing email a time or two. And kids are no exception. Children who use the internet unsupervised are also at higher risk of identity theft. These scams target them with the intent of getting personal information, like a SNN. 3. Data breaches from companies with your child’s SSN: Billions of pieces of PII have been leaked in data breaches in the past few years. Any company that stores your child’s SSN can be hacked, leading to your child’s personal information being available on the Dark Web. 4. Account hacking: ‍Hackers can access your or your child’s devices through unsecured Wi-Fi networks, password hacking, or malware. Any of these types of cyber attacks can lead to your child’s personal information being stolen. Unfortunately, with the rise of remote learning, these scams have become even more prevalent. 5. Physical theft of sensitive information: Documents that contain your child’s SSN can be stolen from the mail or out of your trash. In some cases, criminals will bribe employees at companies or schools to hand over sensitive information. Wild!
