How can a parent tell if their kid is being cyberbullied?
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No two kids are alike, so know that there isn’t a one-size-fits-all list of warning signs that a child may be experiencing cyberbullying.
That’s why it’s important to keep an open line of communication with your child and take notice if they experience any changes in mood or behavior.
If you do suspect your child is being cyberbullied, here are three key identifiers to look out for:
- Behaving differently, increased frustration, irritability, feeling less energetic, or acting anxious, especially after using their phone or computer
- Being secretive or protective about what they are doing online (i.e. isolating in their room when going online)
- Less interested in doing the things they usually enjoy
If you notice any of these signs in your child, it’s important to have an open conversation with them about cyberbullying and seek support from a mental health professional if needed.
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Check out Digital Parenthood's 10 warning signs of cyberbullying for more info and resources.
By starting a dialogue with your child about cyberbullying, you’re laying the foundation for connection as they grow up and assuring them that they can always come to you when they are struggling.
Other questions
I think my daughter might be getting bullied online. What should I do?
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We know it can be gut-wrenching to discover that your child is being cyberbullied, but there are steps you can take to help them find support.
My son told me that his best friend's family has an “internet agreement” - What is that? Should I have one?
Family device and internet agreements are great mechanisms for getting on the same page with your child before allowing them to use the internet or get their own phone.
My teenage son is withdrawing from real life and spends all his time online. Should I be worried?
The teenage years can be a rollercoaster of emotions, and while some behavioral changes are completely normal, it’s important to recognize when your teen is isolating and experiencing changes in behavior or mood due.
What are your top 3 tips for parents who are dealing with cyberbullying?
We know it can be gut-wrenching to discover that your child is being cyberbullied, but there are steps you can take to help them find support.
I think my daughter might be getting bullied online. What should I do?
We know it can be gut-wrenching to discover that your child is being cyberbullied, but there are steps you can take to help them find support.
I’ve read lots of information about the impact of cyberbullying on children. But what if my child is the one doing the cyberbullying? What are the telltale signs?
Often, the warning signs of cyberbullying are the same, or similar, whether the child is the victim or the bully.
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